Listening Well Can Save a Life (or a Relationship) -- Are You A Good Listener? Find Out Here.

Listening is a tremendous skill. Not everyone listens well, but it's a matter of learning how and then staying mindful.

If you have ever wondered how good your listening skills are, take a look at these do's and don'ts of good listening and see if there is any room for improvement.

Good Listening Skills

• Always try to give people your undivided attention.
• Let them sit in silence and collect their thoughts if they need to.
• Question them gently, tactfully and without intruding.
• Encourage them to tell their story in their own words and in their own time.
• Refrain from offering advice based on your own experience.
• Always try and see their point of view even though you may not agree with it.

These techniques can help show someone that you are really listening to them.

Unfortunately, there are some behaviors that suggest that a person is not listening well.

Poor Listening Skills

• Look around the room or glance at your watch while they are talking.
• Finish their sentences for them and correct their grammar.
• Interrupt to tell them how you once had a similar problem.
• Make a snap judgement based on their accent, dress or personal appearance.
• Tell them what you would do in their position.
• Say you understand before you've heard what their problem is.